Recently, a Chinese-style animated short film went viral all over the Internet.
It is "Baby Baobao" directed by Shi Zhiyu, the first Chinese female director in Pixar history. Although it is produced in the United States, Chinese elements such as "Fu", blue and white porcelain, and Tai Chi can be seen everywhere in the film, which makes people feel more cordial. In just eight minutes, it also tellsA topic that Chinese cannot be more familiar with-parent-child relationship.
Pixar's latest Chinese style animation short film "Babaobao" in 2018
Between the "mother and son", there was a gap for the first time.
Little Bun left, and when she came back again, she brought back a blonde girlfriend, and the sparkling diamond ring in her hand seemed to declare "sovereignty" to the old mother.
Isn't this the real Chinese-style parent-child relationship?Love and hate coexist, two generations tore and struggle until both lose. And the "cannibalism" in parent-child education is also being staged in countless families.
The plot where the mother swallows her children is also very reminiscent of the actor Zhu Yuchen and his mother.This relationship between mother and child is like a true portrayal of "Babaobao" and the old mother.
But after "Struggle", Zhu Yuchen has been tepid. It is about to enter the year of no confusion, but still few people know.
AndWhat really made him "red" was the way his mother raised him, Just like the old mother who was meticulous to the little bun in "Baby Baobao", wishing to take care of the child forever.
She even hoped that her son would forget how to cook because he was "too tired".
Correspondingly, she also made a request to her son: no matter what she was doing at the time, she had to come back and drink all the soups.
Zhu Yuchen is nearly forty years old, but he still hasn't made much progress in his acting career, probably because of his mother's overprotection. Because Zhu's mother even had to deal with the dramas her son received and the Weibo she posted every day, Zhu Yuchen had a slight objection, and she took a bitter posture: "Everything is for your good."
This kind of meticulous care and love has already turned into a continuous "poison" invisibly, eroding Zhu Yuchen's body and mind.
Zhu Yuchen thought this way, but also fell into a long-lasting confusion that could not be dissipated. He is a bit sensitive and pessimistic under the camera. When he flushed and sang "Unfortunately Not You", he would cry silently,"Why, no one wants to stay with me?"
But for other children, the ending is very different.
Wang Meng’s extreme actions are not without reason. In the long article, he lists multiple crimes to accuse his parents of manipulation over the years—to take care of everything for him; everything must be done according to the wishes of his parents; there is no right to free choice; every move is even affected. Disguised surveillance... the "love" of his parents made him feel suffocated.
Parents and children are supposed to be the closest people to each other, but their desire for control beyond their limits eventually leads to an irreparable tragedy.
Chinese Canadian couples Pan Hanhui and He Bixia, like many typical Chinese parents, have high hopes for their daughter Jennifer.They strictly control their daughter's studies, social interactions and hobbies, Just to let children grow into their most satisfactory appearance.
Jennifer's parents imprisoned their daughter in an ideal track with unquestionable majesty. But the excessive care and protection have turned into a cage without knowing it, distorting the heart of the child.
The ending of this story is heartbreaking,Mother was killed, father was seriously injured, and Jennifer was eventually sanctioned by law.
Before the age of 18, she did not allow her son to act alone.You can’t even go to the supermarket downstairs or have your own mobile phone. Di Ying stubbornly believes that this is protecting the child.
In addition to becoming less and less concerned about career, even friends are gradually alienating. Di Ying once said frankly in variety shows--"I have no friends, my heart is only for my son. "
At the end of March this year, when Di Ying’s son Sun Anzuo was studying in the United States,Arrested by the police for threatening to create a campus shooting.
The latest news is that Sun Anzuo was "released after serving his sentence" and will soon be deported to Taiwan and will not be allowed to enter the United States for life.
At the beginning, the police found body armor, bullet-carrying backpacks, crossbows, firearms, and 1608 rounds of ammunition in his home. Such powerful firepower made the sergeant who had been in the police for many years stunned.
When he was finally released to a relatively free land in a foreign country, exploding, hurting others, and hurting himself, it might be his final destiny.
I want to give my children the best resources and conditions, just for the smooth flow of TA's life, only flowers and applause in life;
I am afraid that the child will be frustrated and injured, soExhausted all means to give TA strict protection, do not want TA to jump out of the carefully stacked high wall;
Under the permeation of the concept of "good for you", it is necessary to make arrangements for children from daily eating and drinking to work and marriage...
The boy who exhausted his energy to refuse apples and eggs
In the minds of such parents, children are "private objects", the realization of self-expectations and the continuation of self-worth. They have long been accustomed to coexisting with their children, taking care of everything for them.
When parents want to control too much, no matter how they look at it, it is a dead end.
When Ai Fukuhara was 12 years old, she decided to go to China alone to practice table tennis. At this time, her mother let go. She just left as a primary school student,Eating food from a foreign land, listening to a foreign language.
Looking back, I never saw the familiar figure of my mother again. All things must be done by yourself, and all difficulties must be faced by yourself.
It is also with this wisdom to let go in time, Fukuhara Ai grew a pair of powerful wings after experiencing more wind and rain.
A family with a sense of boundaries will not allow children to become puppets of their parents, sinking into a desperate swamp, and no way out.
After the old mother swallowed the little bun, she suddenly woke up from the nightmare. It turned out that all this was just a fantasy in her own dream.
And her real son, a man with a haircut resembling a little bun, also returned to her, and the barrier between mother and child slowly disappeared.
May all parents and children who love each other deeply will forgive each other and reach a reconciliation., Usher in their own abundance years.